Well in the last 24 hours I've seen many friends and watchers change their usernames which has started me thinking on whether or not to change mine.  The name Subvirgin came about after Role Playing and exchanging fantasies with someone.  I decided that I loved the idea of innocence in respect to bondage and discipline where the submissive is a virgin literally, or a virgin to the realm of bondage and discipline who is starting a training phase with a dominant figure.  Hence, a submissive virgin or a virgin newly exposed to submissive behavior.

I like the name SubVirgin well enough.  It's unique and fits the genre of art I create perfectly.  Problem is I've had bizarre notes asking me if I am a real virgin, plus those constant questions of "Exactly what is a subvirgin?"  The biggest issue for me is when people call me "subvirgin" or SV, subby, or anything like that.  I am NOT subvirgin.  I'm simply Cheryl.  I know people mean well, but  I almost always look for the persons real name and if I don't find one, THEN I might call them by their username, but it is rare that I assume that a username is what the person wants to be called.  I wish people would do the same for me.

If I change my name I don't know what to call it since I would like to reference my favorite theme of submission and innocence.  Subfetish? virginsub?

I dunno...unless I can come up with a better name I think I'll keep my ID as is.

Just please don't call me subvirgin -- call me Cheryl.